Time Passes

As time passes things change. We change, the environment around us changes, the circumstances we find ourselves in change, and people change. One of the biggest things that changes is our perspective, the way we see things or look at them. When time passes and we can look back with a kind of disconnection to the event or circumstance we tend to see a bigger picture then when we were in the middle of the moment.
We start to see reason for the actions on how we handled it, not necessarily the others involved, that would be too much to ask. We start to accept maybe and work through the feelings and emotions of that time. Our mind is more clear to process those feelings and emotions that may have strongly affected who we were at the time. We can do things and behave in a way we didn't think we would other wise. So I think that it is important to look back to try to gain an understanding of what happened and how we handled it then and see how we may understand how we are handling it now from a distance away.
I think you will see a change of some sort. If not then you have become entrapped by it somehow and it may be a good idea to try to release yourself from it. Because if you are still living in that moment long ago you will in my opinion never get past it and move on.
Moving on is important in our personal growth as individuals. We at times find things in our lives that hold us back from the change we seek, or moving past an event in our lives. When we do realize it then we stand a good chance to make things better for ourselves.